One of their most intense arguments happened when Sarper accidentally yanked out Shekinah’s hair extensions during a heated exchange. It seemed like that confrontation would end their relationship for good, but they ultimately made up. Sarper is now seeking sympathy for being the one who uprooted his life in Turkey to be with Shekinah. He has managed to deflect much of the criticism he previously faced for his controlling behavior, such as insisting Shekinah maintain a specific weight and altering her appearance to suit his preferences, including her nose.

Sarper Wants To Be Catered To

Sarper Defended His Love, But Shekinah’s Sisters Weren’t Buying It

90 Day Fiancé‘s Sarper traveled to Montana to meet Shekinah’s family with 70 days left on his visa to wed her. Shariya had already met Sarper before, and this was his first time trying to make a good impression on Zionah and Mariah. Shariyah expected to see genuine growth in Sarper. She was under the impression that things were changing and evolving with him, but she was skeptical that his actions could back up these changes. She hoped that Sarper was genuine. Sarper told the cameras that he felt like an “inmate going to execution.”

“Shekinah times three, today.”

“I will make her happy. I will do my best to be with her.”

Sarper insisted that he was the best partner Shekinah could ever find, since they were also spending time getting to know each other, and that they were trying to find “a balance.” He mentioned how he saw that her sisters loved Shekinah in their eyes. He mentioned Shekinah telling him about how they were raised. Shekinah interrupted Sarper to add they were homeshooled, lived rural lives, and didn’t see people outside of their family every day.

“Do you all have geisha vibes like her?”

Shekinah’s sisters were taken aback when Sarper referred to them as “geishas.” He tried to explain the remark by saying that Shekinah did “everything,” including cooking, working, and cleaning, suggesting she played a highly submissive role in their relationship. The sisters were clearly confused by where the conversation was headed. Shekinah stepped in to clarify that Sarper meant she often did things for him without being asked. “And that’s like, geisha vibes,” she said.

Shariyah, still skeptical, asked, “Does that include him telling you to keep your mouth shut?” referencing a past incident. “Yeah,” Shekinah admitted.

Sarper’s Body Count Bragging Is Off-Putting

Sarper Says He’s Changed… But His Words Tell a Different Story

It wasn’t something Sarper should have been bragging about to a new partner. When he claimed to have slept with over 2,500 women, Shekinah thought it was a joke or a typo. Maybe he meant 250, which still felt excessive, but something she was willing to overlook. Instead, Sarper clarified the real number was between 2,500 and 3,000. He insisted he had been “110%” faithful to Shekinah but criticized her for being too “possessive.” Despite his history, Sarper repeatedly claimed he had changed for her and was leaving behind his self-proclaimed “bad boy” image to prove it.

“If I don’t text you back for a while, [you are] kind of a b****…”

Sarper Keeps Threatening To Leave Shekinah

When Shekinah Gave Up Everything, Sarper Gave Her The Cold Shoulder

Not long after Sarper convinced Shekinah’s sisters that he could be trusted, he came back home to Los Angeles with her and got into a terrible fight. Shekinah had it all recorded as proof. Shekinah had come home from work and cooked him a meal, only for Sarper to tell her he hated her and that he was leaving. “I really hate this life and I’m going back to my country,” Sarper shouted at Shekinah in the audio recording. While Shekinah had made a list of things Sarper told her during the argument, he claimed he hadn’t and accused her of lying.